I am really lucky because I have three nieces and a nephew who are awesome and who I love more than just about anything in the entire world. They each have their traits and quirks that set them apart from the others. Ava, 2 months, was the best surprise around. She managed to take a lot of the focus off of me when I was going through a hard time and gave me something to look forward to. I love watching her discover the world and capturing her confused, wide-eyed look on camera! Grace, 5, is my little sass-master. She’s my goddaughter and has attitude galore and never ceases to make me laugh with something she says. Basically a teen in a kindergartener’s body! Walker, 12, is the boy stuck in the middle of a bunch of girls but he handles it well. He’s clever and caring and can set up a bingo concession stand like nobody’s business.
While I love them all equally, it’s the oldest, my niece Victoria, 14 years, who I’ve grown the closest to over the years.
Victoria was born the summer before my 8th grade year and I was around her a lot. My mom brought her along every day when she picked me up from school and I remember having noise-making matches with her in the back seat of the car all the way home and thinking it was hilarious how she would mimic every noise I tried. We sort of grew up together, Tori and I. Me from awkward teen to adult, and her from infancy to teen, and it’s been amazing to watch.
As a kid, Tori liked to copy just about everything I did. Shoes, clothes, everything. Her parents called her my mini-me and I occasionally heard her referred to as “C.J.” or “Catie Jr.” HOWEVER, I am glad to say that she did not transform into a teenage me.
While I was shy and awkward growing up, Tori has blossomed (I feel so cheesy saying “blossomed”) into a very outspoken and talented teenager. From Show Choir as an elementary school kid to plays at most of the theatres in town, she’s just about the most accomplished kid I know. I have loved getting to watch her improve on stage and I’m pretty sure she has no clue how proud I am of her every time I get to go see one of her shows or how much I brag when she gets awesome roles like Mary Lennox in The Secret Garden!
I have had a rough year and have gone through a lot, yet she always managed to cheer me up somehow or just hang out with me even when cheering up didn’t seem to help. When I need to vent, she listens and the advice she gives sometimes feels like it’s coming from someone my own age and not a 14-year-old. I may laugh when she says something like, “Listen, Catie, most of my friends have gone through all this same stuff with their boyfriends. I know what I’m talking about” but oddly enough, what she says is usually spot-on. I look forward to our dinner “dates” at Hu Hot, shoving down Orange Leaf afterward even though we’re both stuffed, and impromptu driving lessons in empty parking lots.
My oldest niece has grown into a totally amazing, awesome, fantastic teen and I can honestly say I’m not sure what I would have ever done without her. And while I know she’ll end up wildly successful and that she has the ability to be great in nearly everything she decides to tackle in life, I’m a little sad to think about the day when she goes off to college and I don’t have access to her all the time.
Victoria, I say it a lot and sometimes it may come across as joking, but I am 100% honest when I say you’re my best friend! Thanks for being born















